Upgrading to Wife 1.0

 
Last year a friend of mine upgraded from Girlfriend 4.0 to Wife 1.0 and found that it's a memory hog leaving few system resources for other applications. He is also now noticing the Wife 1.0 is also spawning Child-processes which are further consuming valuable resources. No mention of this particular phenomenon was included in the product documentation,
though other users have informed me that this is to be expected due to the nature of the application.
 
Not only that, Wife 1.0 installs itself so that it is always launched at system initialization where it can monitor all other system activity. Some applications such as Poker Nite 10.3 , Bachelor Party 2.5, and Pub nite 7.0 are no longer able to run on the system at all, causing the system to lockup when launched (even though the apps worked fine before).
 
Wife 1.0 provides no installation options. Thus, the installation of undesired plug-ins such as Mother-in-law 55.8 and the Brother-in-law Bet